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Sleeping when pregnant with twins or triplets

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Most people are aware that they aren’t going to get much sleep once their multiples arrive.  But what I hadn’t realised is just how hard it was to sleep towards the end of your twin/triplet pregnancy.

It is recommended to sleep on your side after 28 weeks gestation, as this can minimise still birth.  Sleeping on your back puts pressure on major blood vessels, which can reduce blood flow to your womb and thus restrict the oxygen flow. 

Read more about this HERE.

As if that isn’t enough, the left side is the better side to sleep on, as this can help improve circulation, plus is prevents excess weight pressing down on your liver.  

Read more HERE.

Someone who has not been pregnant with multiples themselves will not truly understand the discomfort it can bring.   The multiple limbs inside you, jostling for space, the extra weight, the pain in your hips, back and pelvis plus the fact your bladder is being trampled on means that getting comfortable at night can be somewhat challenging.

In fact, I have had quite a few people say they actually got MORE sleep once their babies were born!

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Reading to twins or triplets

reading books to twins

I don’t know if you ere anything like me when you thought about having a baby?  I pictured myself curled up in a spotless white couch, with my child sitting quietly in my arms as I read them book after book.

And then I had twins.

And I was so busy chasing them in different directions that reading books was so far down the “to do” list that it barely happened.  And then of course I felt guilty I wasn’t reading to them enough.  I knew the benefits of reading books, but it was just too hard!

So how do you go about reading to twins or triplets them ripping the book away and fighting over it?

Remember……….there are NO RULES when it comes to reading to twins and triplets.  You don’t have to read the whole book.  You don’t even have to read the actual book, you can just talk about it and point certain things out, or better still get them to point things out to you.  Just do what you can and do whatever works best for you and your family. 

Here are some tips to help.

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Managing mastitis for mums of multiples

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Author: Melissa Hays, Cocoon & Cradle

Managing mastitis for mums of multiples – (I think that’s enough m’s)!

Oh mastitis – what a literal pain. If you are a mum of twins or triplets that wants to avoid mastitis or has mastitis and wants to know what to do next, you’ve come to the right place!

While mastitis is quite common (affecting up to 20% of breastfeeding mums), it is definitely not normal. But before we dive into all of the ins and outs, you may be asking yourself, what even is mastitis?

You may immediately think infection when you think of mastitis, but did you know that mastitis literally means inflammation of the breast. This may or may not involve a bacterial infection.

It’s likely that it goes like this:

Engorgement -> Non-infective Mastitis -> Infective Mastitis -> Breast Abscess

Common signs include a tender, hot and swollen wedge shaped area of breast, which may be associated with a temperature and flu like symptoms.

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Tips for increasing female libido after having twins or triplets

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Author: Lovehoney Ambassador Chantelle Otten

Everyone’s libido (sex drive) is different and will have peaks and declines over time, this is completely normal and if you are experiencing either you are not alone.

Many things like lifestyles, sleep, stress, anxiety diet and physical wellbeing can all play a part in our sex drives. Pregnancy and motherhood affect most of the things just mentioned. Some women experience a higher sex drive whilst some women experience a lower sex drive after giving birth. The important thing to remember is to not compare yourself to others. Libido is based on what turns you on and how your body responds. 

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If you’re looking for ways to boost or improve your libido after having twins or triplets, continue reading;

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Left hand dominance in twins and triplets

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Author: Tarryn Dee from My Diffability Australia

Did you know that being left-handed can be the result of genetics as well as your surrounding environment? Males are more likely than females to be left-handed and even more interestingly, in about 20% of identical twins one is right-handed and the other is left-handed. 

I am an occupational therapist with over 10 years of experience in helping children to develop their fine motor skills and pre-writing skills. I am here to share some strategies and activities to help with developing hand dominance, and in particular to make things a little easier for the little lefties in our lives. Whether a child is left-handed or right-handed, it is still important for them to develop the use of a tripod pencil grasp.  This grasp is where the index finger and thumb pinch together and rest on the middle finger. 

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Awakening your intimacy after twins, triplets or more

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Author: Isiah McKimmie

Taking care of your relationship can be challenging with little people around, more so with multiples! You’re tired, stressed, touched out, and have so little time for anything else anymore.

So how can you keep your relationship strong and, even, manage to keep a spark alive?  

I’m not going to tell you that it’s easy, but here are some tips to help awaken your intimacy after twins, triplets or more.

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Mastitis with twins and triplets

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Author: Pinky McKay

Mastitis can hit suddenly and hard: one minute you feel just fine and the next you feel shattered and aching all over with chills and a fever. Sometimes flu-like symptoms come on even before you get a fever or notice breast tenderness. Mastitis can affect you emotionally too – it is common to feel ‘just awful’ and teary.

As a mum of multiples, you will be spending so much time breastfeeding or expressing as well as caring for two or more babies (and possibly also a toddler or two) that there isn’t time for ‘Mummy sick leave’. So, let’s look at how you can spot the early signs that mastitis with twins or triplets is rearing its ugly head and head it off before you crash – and how to prevent it in the first place.

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Tips for increasing male libido after having twins or triplets

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By Lovehoney Sex Coach Cam Fraser

Libido/sex drives are not a consistent straight line throughout our lives, it has ups and downs. Many things and factors influence our libido including hormones, life stage, and emotional and physical states. 

Becoming a parent to multiples is a massive life event and is full of ups and downs and learning all on its own. I love being a parent, and it’s so rewarding, but don’t get me wrong it comes with its challenges. 

The is stress, anxiety and worry can be multiplied with multiples. Add to this, the stress and anxiety over the last couple of years as a result of the pandemic and you have a heightened state of stress which isn’t conducive to sexual activity. Stress and libido do not mix. Lovehoney’s lockdown survey indicated that two thirds of Aussies said heightened stress impacted their sex lives. 

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Left Over Right: How to Help Your Left-Handed Twins and Triplets Learn Life Skills

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Author: Deb Hopper – Life Skills 4 Kids

Left-handed twins and triplets

It’s no secret that left-handed people are in the minority, with approximately 75% of the population being right-handed (one study estimates that truly left-handed people make up around 10% of the population. Men are more likely to be lefthanded than women, and twins and triplets are more likely to be left-handed than the rest of the population.

Lefties have some advantages …

Being left-handed in a right-handed world comes with some challenges, especially when it comes to the tools and gadgets we use to make everyday life easier.

But left-handed people also have some innate advantages over the rest of the population. Some sports, such as tennis, cricket and boxing, favour left-handed sportsmen as their opponents struggle to adjust to a different playing technique. Many of the world’s top sporting stars are left-handed.

Lefties are also better at problem-solving, a skill that comes in useful in a world that is built for the right-handed. Every day, left-handed people are faced with challenges that call for them to do things differently because they are often required to use tools and equipment designed for the right-handed.

Parents of left-handed twins will recognize the uniqueness a lefty brings to the family, but right-handed parents may also be struggling with teaching their child everyday skills such as tying shoelaces or using scissors.

Check out my tips below for helping your left-handed twins and triplets to learn essential skills.

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Looking after multiples when sick yourself

Looking after twins when sick

Having multiples means you are already juggling and multi tasking at a pro level.  But looking after multiples when sick yourself adds a whole other level of difficulty.

Read our blog on 5 ways of minimising the spread of germs between multiples HERE.

Please note:  This article is written from a practical parenting point of view of looking after multiples when sick yourself.  Not from a medical point of view. Please contact your local GP or government organisation for medical advice.

Have a conversation and make a plan

Firstly, it is really important you have this conversation with your partner / friends / family BEFORE you get sick. 

You need a back up plan for how you will cope if one of you gets sick, if both of you get sick, if your children get sick, if all of you get sick.  Single parents, it is important you have several plans in place as well, in case your backup caregivers also get sick.

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