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Triplets, twins and reducing the mental load with Hello Fresh

Hello Fresh and twins

Disclaimer: This is an affiliate blog, but I seriously LOVE Hello Fresh, so that’s why I am sharing it. My only regret is not doing it earlier when we were struggling with multiple newborn babies.


Those of you who are regular Twinfo readers know how much I talk about my twins and reducing the mental load where possible. The mental load of being a multi mum is huge (or Dad, but in my case most of their care falls to me so I am writing this blog from my point of view as a mum of multiples).

Plus….did you know that looking after newborn twins take approximately 19 hours a day?

I was at the point where my mental load was causing me to stress about my mental load! Crazy hey! So I decided to do a few things about it.

Triplets, twins and reducing the mental load

Firstly, I paid upfront for a 50 pack of Pilates classes.   Everyone talks about how exercise helps reduce stress levels, so I decided I would just do it.  And by paying up front I knew that this would mean I would go.  As I had already paid for it as I hate wasting money.

Then I looked at some of big things that put pressure on my mental load and Dave and I talked about what we could do to minimise those things.

My top one is Hello Fresh.  I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Hello Fresh as it has reduced my mental load considerably, and has actually made me a happier person.  (Seriously!). 

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Getting identical twins or triplets mixed up

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Possibly every parents worse fear once they find out their multiples are identical is “how will I tell them apart?”.   Don’t panic, at some stage it will happen and you will get them mixed up. And in most cases its not the end of the world.   Usually its just because you weren’t paying full attention, you are tired, the lighting is poor or you just had a fleeting glance of them from across the room.   I can assure you, if it was a serious matter, such as undergoing surgery, you will know who is who. 

Fun Twinfo tip:  Take a close up photo of their belly buttons and pop it in their baby book.  That way you will have photo evidence of who is who.  Belly buttons are a great way of telling identical twins and triplets apart. However, while this is fascinating, it is not particularly handy when trying to tell which child is standing on the top of the slide from across the park!!!

Read our blog here: Fingerprints in identical twins or triplets

There are lots of ways you can prevent getting identical twins mixed up, but that is a whole different blog in itself.  In the meantime, Twinfo has some tips to what to do when and if you (or someone else) do get them mixed up!

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Presents for five year old twins and triplets

present ideas for five year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for five year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Osmo

We were first introduced to Osmo at our local library at a kids STEM night, and we were all hooked.

Osmo uses tangible pieces to create a unique, interactive, hands on learning experience.  Engage preschoolers in core subjects and spark imaginations. From pre-reading to problem-solving skills, these games will inspire a new generation of active learners.

Shop OSMO here.

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Presents for three year old twins and triplets

present ideas for three year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for three year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Easel

Easels make a fabulous present.  Inspire your budding artist with the tolls to create masterpieces for years to come!!!  ThEasels make a fabulous present.  Inspire your budding artist with the tolls to create masterpieces for years to come!!!  There are so many different types to choose from, but its not really a present you can just get one of. Regardless of your aspirations that one child will happily paint on one side, while the other draws on the chalk board, I can guarantee that that won’t happen!!!   They will all want to paint….AT THE SAME TIME. Trust me.

Shop for EASELS HERE

presents for 3 year old twins

Don’t have room for multiple easels?  Check out these MegaSketcher and AquaDoodles.

Twinfo tip:   MegaSketchers are great for the car!!

Shop for MEGA SKETCHERS and AQUA DOODLES here.

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Presents for two year old twins and triplets

present ideas for two year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for two year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Scooters

Three wheeled scooters are a great way to introduce your little ones to the joys of scooting.  Scooting is great for kids.  It helps them develop balance, promotes muscle development, coordination and decision making skills. 

Scooters allow you to get out and about as a family.  The parents can walk, and the kids scoot.  Fresh air, sunshine and good times!

Shop for SCOOTERS here.

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Don’t forget the helmet!

Shop for HELMETS here.

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Presents for one year old twins and triplets

present ideas for one year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for one year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Duplo

Duplo is one of those “perfect gifts” for multiples.  Here are my 10 reasons why.

  1. There is no WRONG way to play with Duplo.  You can either follow the kit instructions, or free build with it. 
  2. It develops colour and shape recognition.
  3. Duplo helps to develop fine motor skills.
  4. You can use it to develop language and counting skills.
  5. It promotes sharing, which is something that our multiples need to learn as early on as possible.
  6. Duplo can be added to for future birthday or Christmases by you or by loving Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents etc. 
  7. It helps develop hand eye coordination.
  8. Its fairly easy to store, and its pretty easy to pick up.
  9. Your multiples will learn problem solving skills.  Be it trying to attach two bricks together or simply finding the right sixed piece they need, right through to basic engineering principles.
  10. It doesn’t hurt nearly as much as Lego if you stand on it in the middle of the night!!!

Shop DUPLO ideas here.

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Establishing breastfeeding with twins or triplets

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We all know that fed is best, but if you are looking at breastfeeding – either directly from the breast or expressing and bottle feeding, then Twinfo has put together five tips to help with establishing breastfeeding with twins or multiples.

Establishing breastfeeding with twins or triplets can have its challenges.  Remember – breastfeeding is a learned skill, especially for the mother.  For some, the journey is an easy one.  For others there may be a few bumps in the road along the way.

Twinfo has complied five tips for establishing breastfeeding with twins or triplets to help you over some of those bumps.

1.      Understand how breastmilk is made

Did you know that your breasts have been preparing for pregnancy since you were in your mother’s womb?  When you were born, your main milk ducts had already formed. Your mammary glands stayed quiet until you reached puberty, when a flood of the female hormone estrogen caused them to grow and also to swell. During pregnancy, those glands kick into high gear. Before your babies arrive, glandular tissue has replaced the majority of the fat cells and this accounts for your bigger than before breasts.

Nestled among the fatty cells and glandular tissue are the milk ducts.  Pregnancy hormones will cause these ducts to increase in both number and size, with the ducts branching off into smaller canals near the chest wall known as ductules. At the end of each duct is a cluster of smaller sacs known as alveoli. The cluster of alveoli is known as a lobule, while a cluster of lobule is known as a lobe. Each breast will contain around 15 – 20 lobes, with one milk duct for every lobe.

Milk is produced inside of the alveoli, which is surrounded by tiny muscles that squeeze the glands and help to push the milk out into the ductules. Those ductules will lead to a bigger duct that widens into a milk pool directly below the areola.  The milk pools will act as reservoirs that hold the milk until your babies suck it through the tiny openings in your nipples. 

Your milk duct system will become fully developed around the time of your second trimester, so you will have milk to feed your babies even if they arrive earlier than you are anticipating.

You can read more about how breastmilk is made HERE.

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2.      Speak to a lactation consultant

While you are in hospital, take full advantage of the lactation consultants that are available to assist you.   Insist on seeing them each day of your stay, and get them to observe and help you with some of those first feeds.  Once you are discharged, most States and Territories offer breastfeeding support via a drop in centre of some kind that you may be able to access for the first few weeks after discharge.  Make sure you find out where your nearest one is before you give birth and find out how and when you can access it. 

If there is not a government run facility near you, or you cannot access it, there is a free breastfeeding support line through the Australian Breastfeeding Association.  Familiarise yourself with their services, and make sure you have their details handy.

Alternatively, you can engage the services of a private lactation consultant.  Many lactation consultants now work via zoom, so you may not even have to leave the house to utilise their services.  Take the time while you are pregnant to find the details of a lactation consultant, so then, if you need one, you can easily reach out to them.

Unfortunately, private lactation consultants aren’t covered by Medicare. However, you can find a list of GPs trained in breastfeeding support HERE, who can provide services eligible for a Medicare rebate.

3.      Ensure you have a good feeding pillow

A supportive breastfeeding pillow is worth its weight in gold, especially if you plan on tandem breastfeeding.   Twinfo recommends the Things for Twins feeding pillow, which you can find HERE.

The Things for Twins twin feeding pillow can also be used for bottle feeding.

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Most hospitals do have tandem pillows that you can borrow during your stay, but you may have to ask them to find one for you.  This would be a useful question to ask your midwife at one of your antenatal appointments.

You may find that at the start your babies are just too little to tandem feed.  Or you may feel more comfortable feeding them just one at a time.  Whatever you decide, a decent breastfeeding pillow is a must.

You can read Twinfo’s blog on 10 reasons why feeding multiples separately may be the best option for your family HERE.

4.      Look after yourself

In the early days it is imperative that you look after you.  You have just birthed multiple babies! It is time to sit back and let the others look after you while you rest and recover.  Ask for and accept help in whatever form you need.

It is important to ensure you are drinking enough water, as breastfeeding is thirsty work, and eating good foods.  

5.      Prevent cracked and damaged nipples

Did you know that silver is a natural antimicrobial, antifungal, and antibacterial metal that also contains anti-inflammatory agents that has proven to heal, prevent and alleviate cuts, wounds, soreness, blisters and infections from the result of breastfeeding or pumping. 

Mothers have discovered the natural benefits of silver not only helps them find relief from common nipple wear and tear, it was also a great companion, with appropriate medical practitioner advice, to support recovery from nipple thrush, mastitis and milk blebs.

Silverette® silver nursing cups are a support product to help mums get through any stage of breastfeeding. With the natural antimicrobial benefits of natural silver, the cups prevent, protect and heal cracked, sore nipples associated from breastfeeding or expressing.  They simply slip into your bra between feeds. 

Find out more about the Silverette® HERE.

establishing breastfeeding for twins and triplets

Establishing breastfeeding with twins or triplets

Remember, breastfeeding is a skill that mothers and babies learn together.  Use this time to get to know your babies.  A mothers mental health goes a long way towards a successful breastfeeding journey.  So try not to put too much pressure on yourself, or your babies.  We hope that these five tips for establishing breastfeeding with twins or triplets are useful.

Read our five organisational tips for breastfeeding multiples HERE.


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