Mastitis with twins and triplets

mastitis breastfeeding twins

Author: Pinky McKay

Mastitis can hit suddenly and hard: one minute you feel just fine and the next you feel shattered and aching all over with chills and a fever. Sometimes flu-like symptoms come on even before you get a fever or notice breast tenderness. Mastitis can affect you emotionally too – it is common to feel ‘just awful’ and teary.

As a mum of multiples, you will be spending so much time breastfeeding or expressing as well as caring for two or more babies (and possibly also a toddler or two) that there isn’t time for ‘Mummy sick leave’. So, let’s look at how you can spot the early signs that mastitis with twins or triplets is rearing its ugly head and head it off before you crash – and how to prevent it in the first place.

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Tips for increasing male libido after having twins or triplets

male sex drive after twins

By Lovehoney Sex Coach Cam Fraser

Libido/sex drives are not a consistent straight line throughout our lives, it has ups and downs. Many things and factors influence our libido including hormones, life stage, and emotional and physical states. 

Becoming a parent to multiples is a massive life event and is full of ups and downs and learning all on its own. I love being a parent, and it’s so rewarding, but don’t get me wrong it comes with its challenges. 

The is stress, anxiety and worry can be multiplied with multiples. Add to this, the stress and anxiety over the last couple of years as a result of the pandemic and you have a heightened state of stress which isn’t conducive to sexual activity. Stress and libido do not mix. Lovehoney’s lockdown survey indicated that two thirds of Aussies said heightened stress impacted their sex lives. 

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Left Over Right: How to Help Your Left-Handed Twins and Triplets Learn Life Skills

percentage of left handed twins

Author: Deb Hopper – Life Skills 4 Kids

Left-handed twins and triplets

It’s no secret that left-handed people are in the minority, with approximately 75% of the population being right-handed (one study estimates that truly left-handed people make up around 10% of the population. Men are more likely to be lefthanded than women, and twins and triplets are more likely to be left-handed than the rest of the population.

Lefties have some advantages …

Being left-handed in a right-handed world comes with some challenges, especially when it comes to the tools and gadgets we use to make everyday life easier.

But left-handed people also have some innate advantages over the rest of the population. Some sports, such as tennis, cricket and boxing, favour left-handed sportsmen as their opponents struggle to adjust to a different playing technique. Many of the world’s top sporting stars are left-handed.

Lefties are also better at problem-solving, a skill that comes in useful in a world that is built for the right-handed. Every day, left-handed people are faced with challenges that call for them to do things differently because they are often required to use tools and equipment designed for the right-handed.

Parents of left-handed twins will recognize the uniqueness a lefty brings to the family, but right-handed parents may also be struggling with teaching their child everyday skills such as tying shoelaces or using scissors.

Check out my tips below for helping your left-handed twins and triplets to learn essential skills.

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Looking after multiples when sick yourself

Looking after twins when sick

Having multiples means you are already juggling and multi tasking at a pro level.  But looking after multiples when sick yourself adds a whole other level of difficulty.

Read our blog on 5 ways of minimising the spread of germs between multiples HERE.

Please note:  This article is written from a practical parenting point of view of looking after multiples when sick yourself.  Not from a medical point of view. Please contact your local GP or government organisation for medical advice.

Have a conversation and make a plan

Firstly, it is really important you have this conversation with your partner / friends / family BEFORE you get sick. 

You need a back up plan for how you will cope if one of you gets sick, if both of you get sick, if your children get sick, if all of you get sick.  Single parents, it is important you have several plans in place as well, in case your backup caregivers also get sick.

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Triplets, twins and reducing the mental load with Hello Fresh

Hello Fresh and twins

Disclaimer: This is an affiliate blog, but I seriously LOVE Hello Fresh, so that’s why I am sharing it. My only regret is not doing it earlier when we were struggling with multiple newborn babies.


Those of you who are regular Twinfo readers know how much I talk about my twins and reducing the mental load where possible. The mental load of being a multi mum is huge (or Dad, but in my case most of their care falls to me so I am writing this blog from my point of view as a mum of multiples).

Plus….did you know that looking after newborn twins take approximately 19 hours a day?

I was at the point where my mental load was causing me to stress about my mental load! Crazy hey! So I decided to do a few things about it.

Triplets, twins and reducing the mental load

Firstly, I paid upfront for a 50 pack of Pilates classes.   Everyone talks about how exercise helps reduce stress levels, so I decided I would just do it.  And by paying up front I knew that this would mean I would go.  As I had already paid for it as I hate wasting money.

Then I looked at some of big things that put pressure on my mental load and Dave and I talked about what we could do to minimise those things.

My top one is Hello Fresh.  I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE Hello Fresh as it has reduced my mental load considerably, and has actually made me a happier person.  (Seriously!). 

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Getting identical twins or triplets mixed up

how to tell ID twins apart

Possibly every parents worse fear once they find out their multiples are identical is “how will I tell them apart?”.   Don’t panic, at some stage it will happen and you will get them mixed up. And in most cases its not the end of the world.   Usually its just because you weren’t paying full attention, you are tired, the lighting is poor or you just had a fleeting glance of them from across the room.   I can assure you, if it was a serious matter, such as undergoing surgery, you will know who is who. 

Fun Twinfo tip:  Take a close up photo of their belly buttons and pop it in their baby book.  That way you will have photo evidence of who is who.  Belly buttons are a great way of telling identical twins and triplets apart. However, while this is fascinating, it is not particularly handy when trying to tell which child is standing on the top of the slide from across the park!!!

Read our blog here: Fingerprints in identical twins or triplets

There are lots of ways you can prevent getting identical twins mixed up, but that is a whole different blog in itself.  In the meantime, Twinfo has some tips to what to do when and if you (or someone else) do get them mixed up!

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Presents for five year old twins and triplets

present ideas for five year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for five year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Osmo

We were first introduced to Osmo at our local library at a kids STEM night, and we were all hooked.

Osmo uses tangible pieces to create a unique, interactive, hands on learning experience.  Engage preschoolers in core subjects and spark imaginations. From pre-reading to problem-solving skills, these games will inspire a new generation of active learners.

Shop OSMO here.

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Presents for three year old twins and triplets

present ideas for three year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for three year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Easel

Easels make a fabulous present.  Inspire your budding artist with the tolls to create masterpieces for years to come!!!  ThEasels make a fabulous present.  Inspire your budding artist with the tolls to create masterpieces for years to come!!!  There are so many different types to choose from, but its not really a present you can just get one of. Regardless of your aspirations that one child will happily paint on one side, while the other draws on the chalk board, I can guarantee that that won’t happen!!!   They will all want to paint….AT THE SAME TIME. Trust me.

Shop for EASELS HERE

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Don’t have room for multiple easels?  Check out these MegaSketcher and AquaDoodles.

Twinfo tip:   MegaSketchers are great for the car!!

Shop for MEGA SKETCHERS and AQUA DOODLES here.

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Presents for two year old twins and triplets

present ideas for two year old twins

When it comes to buying presents for two year old twins or triplets, as always, it depends on the situation. Should you get the same same, or same but different or totally different?

Read our blog HERE on buying toys for twins and triplets.

Scooters

Three wheeled scooters are a great way to introduce your little ones to the joys of scooting.  Scooting is great for kids.  It helps them develop balance, promotes muscle development, coordination and decision making skills. 

Scooters allow you to get out and about as a family.  The parents can walk, and the kids scoot.  Fresh air, sunshine and good times!

Shop for SCOOTERS here.

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Don’t forget the helmet!

Shop for HELMETS here.

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