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Reasons people decide against finding out gender of twins or more

reasons not to find out gender of twins

Congratulations you are pregnant! How exciting.  Oh wait…there are two babies?  Three babies????

Suddenly all the rules have changed.  The panic sets in. The fact that you were never planning on finding out the gender of your baby may change now its TWO or THREE babies.  Planning mode kicks in and you decide you now need to definitely find out the genders.   But take a step back.  You don’t HAVE to find out the gender just because there is more than one baby in there.

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Reasons people decide against finding out the gender of twins or more

For the surprise factor

The desire to have a surprise at the end of the pregnancy means some people choose to not find out the gender.  In todays technologically advanced world you may know the date of conception (from careful ovulation tracking to IVF), the date they are to be born (elective c-section or induction) and even what they look like (have you seen how clear the latest 4D cans are!!).  So to find out the gender is really the last of the unknowns. 

There aren’t that many surprises in life that can equate to this.  That moment when you see them for the first time and find out their gender is equated to a moment time stands still.   Plus you know what they are for the rest of their lives, those few months of not knowing is so exciting.  And it is fun to keep everyone guessing.

Be warned though, you may face backlash from family and friends (and even strangers!).   Be ready for comments like “I could never, how will you be prepared?” or “but you’re having two………”.  Let me assure you, all the gender specific clothing in the world will never actually prepare you for having multiple babies!!

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Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep 8.

Talking twins and more Season 3 episode 8

 

Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep 8.

 

This week the ladies tackle one of the biggest topics in Multiple parenthood – Mental Health.

Jackie returns for another episode as the ladies get raw and real about their struggles with Post-partum depression and anxiety. Each one has a different story to share as they navigate the struggles facing multiple mums and dads.

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Listen to Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep EIGHT

 

 

Losing friends after having twins or triplets

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A lot of things change after starting a family.  Sadly one common and unexpected change is losing friends after having twins or triplets.

Things that change after having twins or triplets

Of course you realise that things will change once your multiples are born.  Your day-to-day routines will change. Your career may be put on hold so that you can continue to care for your babies at home. Let’s not even mention the changes in your body! And even your relationship with your partner will change.  But loosing friends is often not something that crosses peoples minds.

losing friends after having twins or triplets
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Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep 4.

Talking twins and more Season 3 episode 4

 

Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep 4.

 

What’s it like to find out you’re pregnant with twins…a second time?

This episode, Nix and Naomi chat to Sophia from Twins and a Blog who has not one but two sets of twins!!! The ladies discuss the shock the second time round. Is it easier or harder and what did Sophia do differently with the second set?

 

Listen to Talking Twins and More. S3 – Ep FOUR