By Irene Becker, Mother of 3, Investor, Coach, Founder & CEO, 99aupairs
I once read a book, The Wife Drought by Annabel Crabb, and heard myself saying out loud (maybe a tad too loud) – YES, I want a wife! And since then, I have heard this same sentence being echoed by many, many mothers I meet and speak to!
As mothers, what we really need is a wife. Someone who will remember to turn on the washing machine, stack and unstack the dishwasher during the day, reset the kitchen—so we can spend quality time with our children or even fall asleep in their bed without having to worry about the dozens of unfinished tasks before we run out of battery.
For families searching for an Aupair for Twins or Triplets, there is no upgrade from one, two, or three—it’s a tidal wave that keeps on going in many different directions, I might add!
For many families, the decision to bring an Aupair into the home is not just about childcare; it’s about regaining balance, reducing stress, and making life work. But how do you make the transition smooth and successful? Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you navigate the process with confidence.












