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Depression, Anxiety, PTSD and Twins. My Journey into Motherhood

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Author: Robynne

My journey into motherhood has not been without its challenges some of which I didn’t even realise I was facing until much later on.

I am one of the very fortunate women who has been blessed with amazing fertility. My whole family in fact. After being on the pill for nearly a decade it only took us 6 months to fall pregnant with our daughter (now 3.5 years old).

The pregnancy itself from a medical standpoint was very ordinary. There were no complications physically, she was growing perfectly! My body did amazing!

Being diagnosed with depression and anxiety while pregnant

My mental health however was declining, rapidly. It wasn’t until my husband finally said something about halfway through about my increasing outbursts and extreme mood swings did I finally realise something was wrong.

Together we booked my appointment to see the GP. I was terrified. I went alone, as that is what I wanted. Taking a deep breath I walked in and immediately burst into tears. I cried so much. I felt like I was failing my unborn daughter and my husband not to mention everyone else in my life. But she reassured me I was in the right place.

Based on the severity of my depression and anxiety a low dose of medication was decided to be the best action for both the health of myself and my baby. It helped. So much. I felt more level, I worried a little less. It helped my husband and I reconnect.

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Giving birth to twins while in isolation

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Author: Jemma Cullen

Giving birth to twins while in isolation

In July 2019 I was eagerly awaiting the arrival of our second and third children, MCDA twins (their gender a surprise even to us!). I spent my days resting where possible and enjoying time with our daughter, Hazel (3 years old). A caesarean had been scheduled for Wednesday, 24 July 2019 (35+5).

The day prior to scheduled delivery I became extremely unwell, had difficulty breathing and was admitted to hospital. In the early evening, a swab test returned a positive result. It was confirmed I had Influenza A despite having had the flu vaccine.

Doctors were extremely worried about me and determined that delivery would go ahead as planned the next day, however, I would be giving birth to twins while in isolation. The twins would be taken to NICU/SCN upon their arrival. I would not be able to visit or care for the twins until I was well.

Thankfully my fiancé, Brett, was well and he was able to remain with and care for the twins. Hazel was to stay with my parents as originally planned.

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Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty Two.

Talking twins and more episode 22

 

Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty Two.

Season 1 Episode 22: Christmas with Multiples

In this festive season finale, Nix and Naomi dive into the highs and hiccups of Christmas with twins or triplets. From last-minute chaos to thoughtful traditions, they share how the holidays have changed since becoming mums.

They talk gift strategies, navigating family expectations, and the joy (and exhaustion) of creating memories with young kids. Whether you’re a Christmas lover or feeling totally unprepared, this episode will make you feel seen.

How do you celebrate with your crew? Join the conversation on our Facebook page – and Merry Christmas from us both!

Listen to Talking Twins and More. Episode TWENTY TWO.

 


 

Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty One.

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Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty One.

Season 1 Episode 21: Holidays, Meltdowns & Mid-Air Mayhem — Travelling with Multiples

Thinking of taking your twins or triplets on their first big trip? You’re brave and you’re not alone. In this honest and hilarious episode, Nix and Naomi share the highs, lows and absolute chaos of travelling with young multiples.

From tandem breastfeeding in airport rest stops to packing everything except the kitchen sink, they reflect on those early getaways including overseas adventures with six month olds, toddler tantrums in transit, and dodgy car seats abroad.

Whether you’re heading down the road or planning your first international escape, this episode is packed with relatable laughs, helpful tips, and a gentle reminder that parenting on the move is still parenting… just with a better view.

Listen to Talking Twins and More. Episode TWENTY ONE.

 


 

Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty.

Talking Twins and more episode 20

 

Talking Twins and More. Episode Twenty.

Season 1 Episode 20: Behind the Scenes at AMBA with Ashlee Tenberge

Join us for part 2 of our chat with Ashlee Tenberge, Chairperson of the Australian Multiple Birth Association (AMBA), to uncover the heart and hustle behind the organisation supporting thousands of families with multiples.

Ashlee shares her own twin journey, how she got involved with AMBA, and what drives her continued passion for building community and change. From spontaneous volunteering to leading a national board, her story is full of humour, honesty and dedication.

Curious about how to get involved with your local AMBA club or what it’s like to volunteer as a twin parent? This episode is packed with real talk and encouragement for anyone navigating life with multiples.

Listen to Talking Twins and More. Episode TWENTY.

 


 

Talking Twins and More. Episode Nineteen.

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Talking Twins and More. Episode Nineteen.

Season 1 Episode 19: Leading with Purpose After Premature Twins

What begins with two tiny babies in NICU turns into a national mission. Nix and Naomi chat with AMBA Chairperson Ashlee Tenberge about how her early motherhood experience sparked a deep commitment to helping other parents of multiples.

From stepping into her first volunteer role to suddenly leading a room full of strangers, Ashlee shares the unexpected path that brought her from overwhelmed new mum to national leader. Along the way, they unpack the emotional highs and lows of volunteering, playgroup friendships, and balancing it all with family life.

If you’ve ever wondered how to reconnect with yourself after becoming a parent, this episode will show the power of purpose, community and saying “yes” before you feel ready. Feeling unsure where to start? You just might find your people at your local AMBA club.

Listen to Talking Twins and More. Episode NINETEEN.